love the girl in your heart, not in
your mind.
if you base your relationship on
feelings, it will fail for there are
ups & downs in feelings.
girls are there to be loved, not toyed
around.

love her for who she is.
don't even think about changing any
bit about her.
6 billion people in this world & 6
billion different personalities.
she's special & she will stay that way.
you change any part of her, you'll
change her forever.
don't substitute her for anyone else,
they are just unique in their own ways.

love whole-heartedly.
she sacrificed alot for you so you'd
better really treassure her.
she could have just got up & date a so
much more dashing guy in town but she
chose you instead all because of love.
so love her guys, not play with her.

don't just get the girl to beg you to
stay or whatso ever.
if you're with her, love her.
don't cause a strain in the
relationship, you'll end up loving
each other out of pity or charity,
that's not respecting love at all.
respect love the way it is &
everything will be the best it can be.

don't expect perfection from her.
she's the only one in the world &
she's done the best she could.

like another girl while you're in a
relationship?
then I think it's time you remain
single for a while.
don't go around breaking girls'
hearts, it's the most tragic thing to
do.

tell the truth, never hide anything
from her.
if you want her to tell you
everything, do the same.
don't go calling other girls "honey"
or "darling", how would it feel if
your girl calls other guys the same
way?
be faithful, enough is enough.

socialise only when you're single.
you socialise & flirt around is to get
the girl of your dreams.
get it over when she's already yours,
don't ask for more.

it never kills to be romantic.
think, be flexible.
getting that diamond ring isn't the
only gift for her.
be realistic, she's human & she lives
life just like you.
something sweet & simple always
get the job done.
money doesn't exist between couples,
it's the love.

never promise her that you'll love her
forever because your forever might end
the next day.
love her as if each day is the last.

sweet talks only apply for singles,
not for attached guys.
do that & you'll really break your
girl's heart.
isn't good being too well-known too,
it'll give her a sense of insecurity.
remember, INSECURITY.

promise her & make sure you never
break it.
swear to her & make sure you keep it.
pledge your love to her & her alone.

loving her is giving her your heart to
break it but trusting her not to.
instead, she'll cherish it & protect
it.
that's love.
give her your heart, your life, your
everything.

lay down your life & prepare to die
for her when the need arises.
but stay strong & live through another
day, she can never live without you.

never, ever walk out of her life.
she won't just cry her heart out &
carry on living as per normal, she'd
die.
it her heart that you've broken,
how would you ever know how she feels?

winning a girl's heart isn't the final
victory.
don't leave her once you've won her
love.
love her all the way till the end of
time, love her till marriage,
love her till old age, love her till
death.
if you can love her till the end of
time, you've earned the
honor & respect for you've truly loved
her.

she chose you because she believes
that you can fulfil your promise.
win her heart & love her over.
remember, the girl isn't a trophy for
display, she's someone to love, not to
show off to your "friends".
stay humble yet proud that she's the
one for you.
respect her for the way she is, never
despise her & never mistreat her,
never even think of toying with her


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I'm the girl who will put her head on
your shoulder, not because she's
sleepy, but because she wants to be
closer to you...

I'm the girl who likes to be kissed in
the rain, more than inside your
bedroom or in an expensive
resturant...

I'm the girl who says,"ok, but you owe
me..." jokingly not because I actually
want something, but because it means I
get to spend more time with you...

I'm the girl you can take absolutely
anywhere and I will (or at least try
to) have fun because it means I am
spending time with you...

I'm the girl who is incredibly picky,
but when I find someone I like I want
to spend the whole night curled up in
their arms...

I'm the girl who never forgets all the
sweet little things you do for me...

I'm the girl who actually keeps her
body parts in her clothing in
public...

I'm the girl who never gives up hope
even when I tell others I have...

I'm the girl who once I let you into
my heart, there's always a place there
with your name on it. And even if we
spend time apart, I'm the girl who
never forgets you.

I'm the girl who loves to end a hug
with a kiss...

I'm the girl who you can talk to about
anything...

I'm the girl who laughs at your
jokes...

I'm the girl who will have many inside
jokes with you and will remember each
one...

I'm the girl who will brag about you
to all of my friends...

I'm the girl who will listen to you
talk...

I'm the girl who really does want to
be friends after a break up...

I'm the girl who loves it when you hug
me for no apparent reason...

I'm the girl who loves it when you hug
me from behind or kiss me on the
forehead..

I'm the girl who loves you for you,
and doesn't care what other people say
about us...

I'm the girl who loves it when you
introduce me to your friends as your
girlfriend...

I'm the girl who loves the feeling
when you take me by the hand without
saying a word...


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LOL. im just bored and went bulletin hopping.
i wonder, when will i feel love and be loved ? hm..

Love is not something that can be fathomed easily i guess.
if love was that easily to understand,
perhaps, all of us would be like Christ now.
sacrificing for people. people we dont even know
sacrificing for people who hate us
sacrificing. for people who are yet to come into existence

i guess some things in the world is just meant to enjoy, to experience. and not to know the full meaning until its youre time.

sometimes. just enjoying the experience, is better than logical explantions that the world craves so much.

we will never understand how a mother can sacrifice so much for a child

or how a husband can die because he saved the wife from a car accident

or how Christ can give His life for us (;

Love is something that's felt with the heart, unexplained, and illogical.